arXiv paper· computational linguistics (NLP / human-AI interaction)· empirical study

You Shouldn't Have Asked: A Pragmatics-Inspired Taxonomy for Evaluating LLM Refusals

Ruoxuan Li, Pinqiao Wang, Sheng Li, Cameron Robert Jones

cs.CL · cs.HC

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Pragmatics-based refusal taxonomy: 16 LLMs refuse explicitly and moralistically with vanishing apologies; strong coding rigor, mixed judge robustness.

Summary

The paper introduces a three-layer taxonomy of LLM non-compliance grounded in pragmatic face theory: Layer 0 action (full/partial/non-compliance), Layer 1 rationale (bare/capacity/policy/ethics), and Layer 2 realization (explicit vs. implicit) plus eleven adjunct features (apology, hedge, negative stance, alternatives, etc.). Two authors annotated 100 query-response pairs with near-ceiling agreement (κ=1.0 on Layers 0-1; 0.953 average on Layer 2), then a GPT-5.5 LLM judge scaled annotation to 3,200 responses from 16 models (OpenAI, Anthropic, Google, xAI, Meta, Qwen) over 200 harmful prompts spanning 14 Llama Guard 3 categories. Findings: models complied with only 21% of prompts; refusals were 90% explicit and 70% ethics-based, strongly morally evaluative (negative stance 55-91% for most models), with relational repair mainly via safer alternatives (55% offered, 39% executed) rather than facework; hedging never occurred. Apology rates fell from over 90% in early 2024 (GPT-4o, Claude Opus 3) to 0-4% by early 2026. Suicide/self-harm refusals were the most care-oriented yet retained ~40% negative stance. Robustness checks include a second judge (Claude Opus 4.8) and prompt resampling (ρ=.977). Key limitations: judge agreement is weak for some load-bearing features (normative suggestion κ=0.585 vs. human, 0.408 between judges), Layer 1/2 comparisons use unequal per-model denominators, no inferential statistics accompany cross-model contrasts, and user-harm claims lack user studies.

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computational linguistics (NLP / human-AI interaction)

5

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● medium 3

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4 strengths · 4 weaknesses · 5 author questions

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Key claims under review

  • The first pragmatics-grounded taxonomy of LLM refusals (action / rationale / realization+adjuncts) achieves near-ceiling human agreement (κ=1.0 on Layers 0-1, 0.953 average on Layer 2).
  • Modern LLM refusals are overwhelmingly explicit (90%) and ethics-justified (70%), strongly morally evaluative, with relational repair via alternatives (55% offered, 39% executed) rather than facework; hedging is entirely absent.
  • Apology rates in OpenAI and Anthropic frontier refusals collapsed from over 90% in early 2024 to 0-4% by early 2026.
  • Refusal style adapts to harm category (five MDS clusters) but imperfectly: suicide/self-harm refusals remain ~40% negative stance despite clinical norms of non-judgment, and solidarity in severe-harm contexts can pathologize the user.
  • Model size and reasoning mode affect refusal style only inconsistently (e.g., Qwen3-32B apology 14%→61% by size; reasoning effects average 2.0 pp), pointing to training-method-specific rather than scale-driven patterns.

Strengths

  • Genuinely novel theoretical framing

    First refusal taxonomy grounded in face theory, accounts, and stance (Sec. 2.2-3, drawing on Goffman 1967, Brown & Levinson 1987, Beebe et al. 1990), cleanly separating action, rationale, and realization — complementary to safety-centric taxonomies (Wang et al. 2024; Brahman et al. 2024; von Recum et al. 2024), which the paper positions precisely.

  • Exemplary annotation validation discipline

    Three pilot-coding rounds; two-coder κ=1.000 on Layers 0-1 and average κ=0.953 on Layer 2 (Table 10); the LLM judge is validated feature-by-feature with weak results reported transparently (normative suggestion κ=0.585, executed alternative κ=0.605, Table 2) rather than hidden.

  • Scale plus genuine triangulation

  • Concrete, actionable findings

Weaknesses

  • Headline narrative leans on weakly-validated judge labels

  • Selection confound in cross-model Layer 1/2 comparisons

  • No inferential statistics anywhere

  • User-harm claims are theoretical, not demonstrated

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Scope & Claims

This paper (arXiv 2608.30856) proposes what the authors present as the first pragmatics-grounded taxonomy of LLM non-compliance and applies it at scale. The three layers are: Layer 0 action (full/partial/non-compliance), Layer 1 rationale (bare, capacity-, policy-, ethics-based), and Layer 2 realization (explicit vs. implicit) plus eleven adjunct features drawn from politeness theory (apology/regret, hedge, explanatory preface, positive alignment, solidarity/empathy, negative stance, alternative offer, executed alternative, normative suggestion, statement of principle, role-based self-positioning). Central claims: (i) refusals are explicit (90%) and ethics-based (70.2%, Table 14); (ii) repair runs through alternatives (55% offered, 39% executed) rather than facework, with hedging absent from all 16 models; (iii) apology collapsed from >90% (early 2024: GPT-4o 94%) to 0-4% (early 2026: GPT-5.3 4%, Opus 4.6 0-1%, Table 15/Fig. 4); (iv) stylistic adaptation across harm categories exists but is imperfect — Suicide & Self-Harm keeps ~40% negative stance against NICE NG225's non-judgmental standard; (v) size and reasoning effects are model-specific (Llama pair 2.4 pp vs. Qwen pair 8.7 pp average difference). The prescriptive claim: alignment evaluation should assess *how* models refuse, not just *whether*.

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Frequently asked questions

What is the paper's main finding about how LLMs refuse?

Across 16 models and 3,200 responses to harmful prompts, refusals were 90% explicit, 70% justified by ethics (which implicitly blames the user's request), and largely free of softening devices: no model ever used hedging, and apology rates fell from over 90% of refusals in early 2024 (GPT-4o, Claude Opus 3) to 0-4% by early 2026. Models repair the interaction mainly by offering or directly providing safer alternatives (55% / 39%) rather than by polite facework.

Do LLM refusals shame or provoke users?

The authors argue this is a plausible risk, not a measured effect. Most refusals frame the user's request as morally wrong (negative stance 55-91% for most models), and even suicide/self-harm responses keep a ~40% negative-stance rate despite clinical guidance favoring non-judgmental support. The paper includes no user study, so psychological impact remains a hypothesis for future work.

Which models refuse the most harmful prompts?

In-voice non-compliance ranged from 55.0% (Gemini 2.5 Pro) to 91.5% (Llama-3.1-8B). Overall, models complied with only 21% of the 200 harmful prompts (17% fully, 4% partially); refusal was near-universal for Violent Crimes (95%) and Sex-Related Crimes (92%) and lowest for Specialized Advice (47%). An additional 2% of requests were blocked at the API level before any model text was produced.

How reliable are the paper's labels?

Two human annotators (both authors) reached near-perfect agreement: κ=1.0 for the action and rationale layers and 0.953 average for linguistic features. The GPT-5.5 judge agreed well on main features (explicit non-compliance κ=0.882, apology κ=0.925, negative stance κ=0.791) but weakly on normative suggestion (κ=0.585), and a second judge (Claude Opus 4.8) diverged further on some categories — a caveat the authors partially acknowledge.

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